Sunday, November 26, 2023

Will They Connect?



The day I delivered my youngest son, my oldest son was already 16 years old. My husband and I had always yearned to have a daughter, so after having four sons, we decided to give it one last shot. Fortunately, we were blessed with another son, which initially brought me relief as I was comfortable raising boys. However, my joy was soon replaced by concerns about the age gap between Stevie and Kaleb. Numerous questions plagued me - would they be able to form a strong bond? Could they connect on a deeper level before Stevie departed for college? Would a teenager even be interested in a baby? My mind was filled with doubts and apprehensions. 

Stevie has always been a beacon of positivity, but I could not help but worry if a new baby would change our family's wonderful dynamic. Would Stevie be embarrassed if I took a newborn to school events and track meets? However, as soon as Kaleb was born, all my worries dissipated. Stevie's love for Kaleb was instant and unwavering. They were like two peas in a pod, and Stevie would rush to Kaleb when he returned from school. He was an exceptional help with Kaleb, always willing to change diapers, feed him, and help put him to sleep. Stevie's friends would even come over to play with Kaleb, and it was a joy to watch them all interact. There was something magical about the bond between Stevie and Kaleb - an unbreakable connection that only grew stronger over time. Whenever I struggled to reason with Kaleb, Stevie had a way of getting through to him. Even during the challenging times of potty training, Stevie's words would magically make Kaleb want to do it. 

As I reflect on the close relationship between Stevie and Kaleb, I am overwhelmed with gratitude. However, as Stevie prepared to leave for college, I could not help but worry whether their bond would remain as strong. However, my fears were quickly dispelled as I witnessed their unbreakable connection. Kaleb bears a striking resemblance to Stevie, not only in his looks but also in his personality. Their bond is so strong that no distance can ever come between them.

1 comment:

  1. What a big beautiful family you have. I love that your kids have such a close relationship! Good work Momma!

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